There is no denying that secrecy and infidelity has become more common in modern marriages. Especially celebrity marriages seem to involve infidelity and unfaithfulness, but cheating happens every day to regular people too. A recent story in the Chicago Tribune mentions how many people will do just about anything to convince themselves that their marriages are free of deception and lies.
Adultery is by far the most common secret in marriage, and one of the leading causes of divorce. In one case, a woman adamantly refused to believe that her husband, who was always working, was being unfaithful. However, after she hired a private investigator to inspect the actions of her spouse, she discovered that her husband was cheating on her in his workplace. Nowadays, thanks to modern technology, adulterous spouses are getting caught more easily than ever. In most cases, emails and text messages provide more than enough evidence, and some people even go so far as to acquire surveillance software which record anything that happens on a home computer.
The former marriage of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver is a typical example of an unfaithful relationship. Schwarzenegger cheated on his wife repeatedly and never admitted to being the father of the son he had with the family's housekeeper. Schwarzenegger's extramarital affairs came as a surprise for his wife, although the cheating had been going on for years. To make matters even worse, they had four adolescent children who will likely suffer from negative effects because of the divorce.
There can be many reasons for getting a divorce, infidelity is just one of them. Whatever the reason for your divorce, you can benefit from tenacious and skilled legal representation. Contact an experienced Naperville divorce attorney as soon as possible.